Talk Not Talk

     "Should I? Should I not? I think I should.. No I shouldn't. Ugh! What should I do? I won't go only for the party. Not a single appropriate outfit. I need to shop!" Well, the mirror didn't respond. "Who are you talking to?" asked my mom. "Myself," I replied. Myself? Talking to myself? Sounds normal to me but it didn't to her. I had always been communicating with myself but today it felt different. Maybe, cause for the first time I witnessed this conversation.
       We all have been gifted with the right to communicate ever since we were born. We have been communicating with ourselves more than we do with others but the fact skips our attention. As I'm writing this, I'm not only communicating with you'll but also myself. Approving and disapproving every word, every thought. Our entire life has been a conversation. Just that this conversation has no particular purpose or no particular language. Neither it has a particular time duration nor does it create any memories. It is just there. In our lives, we take out time to talk to our friends, family. significant others and people we meet on daily basis. Maybe discussing their problems, giving advises or solutions, sharing a memory. How can I forget whatsapp, twitter, sms, calls and all the other means of communication we use. But does it at all compare with spending time with ourselves by closing our eyes and giving ourselves a smile? 
         Whenever we are in an uncomfortable situation or going through a rough phase in our lives, we seek to talk it out to someone. But why not just take a moment and talk it out to our first and last friend..ourselves? Let's give it a try!

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